Freshness of mind

You are there where you are now for the period you cannot decide because   in previous   birth you were  there for  the same period.Said some philosopher. 

Do you   believe?

Never mind.Be happy.  Keep diary for fresh mind and daily   routine. Keep good  health.

Refresh frequently  by cleaning  your face with   water which is useful for giving freshness of mind also

S J GOSAVI .

   

For any problem in the world contact me on my cell no.9604853760  in connection with social , legal,property,cyber,will,etc. Problems and for coordination,counciling,compromise.for really good people I am always there
 to help.

Shrinivas Gosavi,B.Com,LL.M,CAIIB,MBA.

जगी सर्व सुखी असा कोण आहे? विचारी मना तूची शोधूनी पाहे.
हा समर्थ रामदास स्वामींचा श्लोक एका अर्थाने खरोखरोच सत्य व पटणारा आहे.
मनुष्य जन्माला येवून पुढे जे जे पाहतो,अनुभवतो व उपभोगतो त्यावरून खोल विचार केला तर कळून येते कि जगात सर्व सुखी असा कोणीच

नाही.पैशाने श्रीमंत माणूसहि सुखी असेलच असे नाही.

 त्याचेमागे काहीतरी व्याधी लागलेली असतेच किंवा पैशामुळे होणारे वाद,मत्सर,कुरघोडी व आपल्याच मुलांची चाललेली उधळपट्टी व त्याबरोबर त्यांना लागलेली व्यसने व वाईट सवयी यांनी तो दुखी असतोच. गरिबाला पैशाची व जगण्याची काळजी असते. खोल विचार केला तर प्रकर्षाने पदोपदी जाणवते कि या सर्व गोष्टीचे कारण प्रेम व माया असून त्याचा त्याला कधीच अंत राहत नाही. लोभ व माया माणसाला त्यातच गुरफटून टाकते.
लहानपणी आई वडलांची निरागस माया व प्रेम माणसाला सुखावते.त्यावेळी अज्ञानातच सुख असते म्हणूनच म्हटले आहे कि “ लहानपण देगा देवा.... “
मनुष्य जसा मोठा होवू लागतो तसे जगाचे आकर्षण व कुतूहल यामुळे प्रेमाची व्याप्ती वाढते व त्यात बरे वाईट अनुभव यायला सुरवात होते.कारण ते प्रेम अनेक ठिकाणी वाटले जाते व प्रत्त्येकाच्या अपेक्षा पूर्ण होतच नाहीत.ऐन जवानीत योग्य साथ, मार्गदर्शन मिळाले तर, व आई वडिलांची व वडीलधाऱ्यांची आज्ञा घेवून पुढे गेले तर बरेच जणांचे आयुष्य सुखी होऊ शकते.ज्यावेळी शिक्षण घ्यायचे आहे त्यावेळी शिक्षण वेळेवर व चिकाटीने घेवून पूर्ण करणे व नंतर अर्थार्जन करून मनासारखी नोकरी किंवा व्यवसाय सुरु झालेवर आई वडिलांच्या विचाराने योग्य साथीदाराची निवड करून गृहस्थाश्रम स्वीकारणे असा क्रम बरेच जण पाळत नाहीत, त्यातून प्रेमभंग, अपेक्षाभंग किंवा चुकीची निवड, पश्चाताप, मानसिक हानी, शारीरिक हानी व आर्थिक नुकसान व दुखी जीवन वाट्याला येते. कारण नसतांना मनस्ताप होतो.
सुखी जीवनात अतिलोभ, द्वेष,मत्सर, वासना यांचा हव्यासापोटी व अहंकारापोटी शिरकाव झाला तर जीवन दुखःमय होण्यास वेळ लागत नाही.
दुसरयाचे ऐकुन घेणे,सर्वसमभाव ठेवून आवश्यक असेल तरच मत व्यक्त करणे, विनाकारण विरोध न करणे, दुसऱ्याला कमी न लेखणे, आत्मविश्वास,योग्य वागणूक, अहंकाराला थारा न देणे व मी करीन ते पूर्व असे न वागणे या गोष्टीने जीवन सुखी होण्यास मदत होते. अति लोभापायी मनुष्य त्यात गुंतून दुखी होतो.या सर्व गोष्टींना योग्य दिशा देण्याचे काम फक्त मनच करते. म्हणून मनाने योग्य दिशा घेवून वागले तर मनुष्य सुखी होतो. सर्वे सुखे असून सुद्धा मनुष्याचे मन शांत नसेल तर मनुष्य हा दुखीच राहतो.
लेखक श्रीनिवास ज. गोसावी.B.com.LLM.,CAIIB,MBA(Banking & Finance)

Adjustment in life

I was thinking to write on adjustments in life.today and now I feel it right to write something on this topic.

It is  easy to consume life when there is no difficulty or adjustment in life. But when all the things are not right it is right to adjust ourselves with the surrounding and atmosphere we are involved. Adjustment should be done with our own  behavior with the others if we also want reciprocal treatment to us. We should not judge the same person with the same attitude for all the times. Person can change the behavior as per the circumstances and other external  factors. Love is very delicate matter, hence we should  be faithful to our spouse children, parents and other relatives and should respect them always. We should develop the power of listening to others carefully and study their limitations of mind and body.

Our habits should be such that  there is no disturbance to others in the family and others in the society. We should ensure to give up bad habits such as smoking , drinking and betting . gambling etc. Most important in this world of temptation is that we should be faithful to our work, spouse,parents and others and duties, and we should note that our mind is controlling us which should be kept pure and clear to face any temptation.

Our life will be happy and satisfactory if we  behave properly, take necessary exercise to keep good health and eat balance food . We should love ourselves to inculcate good habit in the life.Then everything will be OK for love and satisfaction in our life. It is easy if only we make up our mind for this as our mind is out manager to control our actions for achieving the ultimate goal of satisfaction in our life.

created by Mr.S.J.Gosavi. 

Life 4 us

Do you know love and life are the daily gifts given by God to us to consume with happiness and satisfaction?But in daily routine we forget to do so because of our  bad habits of  sleeping more time, taking drink,smoking, losing self confidence, taking doubts on every action of our life partner, children, associates  scolding them, worrying on problems instead of trying best for the same and so on. Living life is an art and it should be planned for days ahead and with careful precaution and respect to others it can be meaningful.

creation by S.J.Gosavi.

Women's day

आज जागतिक महिला दिन व माझा वाढदिवसही. या भारत देशात कर्तृत्ववान अनेक महिला होवून गेल्या.जाज्वल्य देशाभिमान व काहीतरी चांगले करण्याची प्रवृत्ती यामुळे महिलांनी देशाची मान उंचावली. सद्सद्विवेक बुद्धीने वागून जगात वावरणाऱ्या स्त्रिया सुख व समाधान मिळवतात. अविचारी वागून बुद्धी नाश होतो व सर्व जीवन दुखमय होते. स्त्रीने संसार टिकवण्यासाठी कितीही खटपट केली तरी पुरुषांनी तो प्रामाणिक राहून टिकवायचा असतो.

सर्वच गोष्टी स्त्रियांच्या हातात नसतात. प्रामाणिक स्त्रीचा गैरफायदा घेणारे जसे पुरुष असतात तशा स्त्रियाही असतात. त्या सर्वांपासून सावध राहून जीवन जगण्याचा प्रयत्न करणे एवढेच स्त्रीच्या हातात असते. परस्त्रीवर नजर ठेवून स्वतःच्या स्त्रीचा दुस्वास करून अनेकांनी आपले स्वताचे संसार उध्वस्त केले आहेत व स्वतःच्या पत्नीला वाऱ्यावर सोडले आहे. अशा स्त्रियांनी न डगमगता आपले आयुष्य काळजीपूर्वक पावले टाकून जगणे फार महत्वाचे आहे. हार न मानता स्वतःची चूक नसतांना कच खाण्याचे काहीएक कारण नाही. संयम, आत्मविश्वास व योग्य ती काळजी घेवून प्रसंगी धाडस दाखवून जगणे सोपे जाते. वेळोवेळी आई वडिलांचा योग्य सल्ला घेवून जीवनाची मार्गक्रमणा करावी. योग्य शिक्षण, मार्गदर्शन व योग्य विचाराने जगन्मान्य असे वागले तर दुखी जीवन होण्याचे काहीएक कारण नाही. घराण्याची, देशाची मान उंच राहील असेच सर्व स्त्रियांनी वागावे.

विवेकाने वागले तरच हे शक्य आहे. सर्वांना माझ्या हार्दिक शुभेच्छा.

श्रीनिवास गोसावी ०८.००३.२०१३   

Gentleman

Gentleman is a person who is mild and moderate. He thinks all aspects of life with good measurement. He believes in God or Guru or somebody in the family as his guide and acts in such a way that he loves  relatives, spouse and children, parents and other always and every person praises him. He is faithful to his own acts and actions. He is not of wavering nature. He is faithful to his wife and children  forever upto the life and do not neglect them at any cost. He is gentle in nature and good to everybody and he maintains good relations with all the persons. He believes that let all live happily and he ensures that nobody is disturbed by his acts. He is not after wine, woman and  earns wealth by faithful means and acts. He ensures faithful relations with his wife and children.He cares his family and parents. He keeps balance in relations both with his parents and wife. He do not go to the bad track of a woman and wine. He thinks in proper way and do not make victim to his blood relations i.e parents and wife and children and other relatives. He preserves  his valuable relations with his family and others.

Creation by Mr.Shrinivas Gosavi,B.Com,LLM,CAIIB,MBA.

Deewana Hua Badal - Sharmila Tagore & Shammi Kapoor - Kashmir Ki Kali

Mohammed Rafi - Chaudhvin Ka Chand Ho

You love you for Positive Approach in the Life

Every one wants to develop in life, with better standard of living and bright career. But nobody wants to develop himself or herself in such a way that in their mind and action the thought of positive approach is developed. Hence everyone should ensure to develop the mind and body in such a way that confidence is developed to face any problem. The person should ensure good habits, nice living,well dressed and smile on the face. The person should ensure that there is no excuse for good and pure thoughts of daily routine and future planning. Every action should be for you and betterment of you only. For this all needed is that you love you. The present picture of youth is not very good. It seems that instead of concentrating on study and good habits the students are diverting their mind energy and time for chatting on net, sending sms and using mobile for so many hours for mostly unethical trends. Colourful parties are also arranged frequently. IN former days students were going to Rhushi Munis/i.e teachers living in remote calm places near mountains with their ashrams(dwelling places) for 2 to 10 years and completing studies.
Now in colleges education is not imparted to the expectations of students and they go to classes. This sign is not good. Everybody should ensure that they love their study and daily routine should be nice and ethical, legal and acceptable to all their good relatives, friends. For success in the life it is also important that your health is good. For the same you should inculcate good habit of taking balanced food and drinks and do exercise daily to be physically fit. If you are physically fit your mind is also developed to face any task, difficulty or trouble. You also enjoy your life to your maximum satisfaction. It means if you do not love you, you will not think of your good habits, physical fitness and saving your valuable time and money.
You must love you for positive thinking, getting confidence in life for your future career and to be successful in your career oriented examinations and tests.
Unless you love you you will not also live up-to-date in the modern world.
To live up-to-date you should be cheerful, with sweet tongue, and positive attitude towards life. Only dressing neatly and wearing attractive suits and blazer will not do. You should be of positive mind and thought and of clean and confident actions for success in the life. Positive thinking includes the fact that do live happily and let others also live happily.
In nutshell, you should love you for better career path with full confidence.
Shrinivas Gosavi, B.Com.LLM.CAIIB,MBA(Banking and Finance)Cell.No. 9604853760

Moral Duty Towards Parents for Successful Life

You have been on this wonderful and magical earth because of your parents only and you must agree that they have taken your care from childhood till today and they also expect the same treatment from you in the old age. In the present days the fashion is for living in separate flats away from parents in almost 30 to 40 percent cases. The parents also agree to the same arrangement out of love and affection to their children. Then children are in bad contacts sometimes due to developed frankness and communication facilities and they do not care to take advice for important decision of marriage also from parents. As a formality they introduce to the parents the friend in some cases and in most of the cases they even do not care to consult the parents. This trend is developing day by day which turns in miserable life of parents and the concerned persons in both the families, in most of the cases. This is because there is no proper control over the children even they are grown up and major.
The parents are helpless and they live in adjusted arrangement made by their earning and major sons. Previously in joint family the happiness and satisfaction was to the maximum extend due to joint, collective responsibility and caring nature of all. The value of advice of parents and old grand father and mother and elder relatives is now a days not important to the children. I do not want to blame all for this but it is a fact that this type of trend is increasing. It is also important to note that the cost of living of double establishment or separate establishment is also unnecessarily to be borne by all on account of rent, transport and service bills like light, telephone, taxes other arrangements for children.
In the important event of booking flat, marriage, taking land ,doing investment, doing business the advice of parents, elders and well wishers is very much important and every person should ensure that decision is taken by due advice of parents and well wishers and if necessary in consultation with experts and professionals. Easy money is coming in hands due to high salaries and attractive foreign business, income from stock and share market investments and trading, but it should be ensured that money is invested wisely with due precaution and spent also wisely, for necessary requirements.
To obey the parents and to give respect to them is a primary duty of the children. When grown up and earning money ,the sons and daughters of the parents should arrange their regular check up and balanced food as per their age and health. Every care as a child should be taken of the parents by every person. It should be remembered that they are our Gods on the earth. Even God comes later as mother has to keep you in her body for more than 9 months and then you are born. Hence every person should keep in mind that you cannot clear the debt of your parents by money and arranging their stay elsewhere in old citizen homes or hostel meant for them. IN special rare cases that may be necessity. You have to please your parents, respect them every moment, not to show anger, not to speak loudly with them.
Every responsible householder should ensure that he takes food, drink after giving the same to his parents, children and wife. So also about clothes, otherwise he is committing sin. Children should honour and pray their parents in the morning with cheerful face and in the evening also respect them by namashkar before going to sleep and wish good health and satisfaction in their life. They should also pray God before going to sleep in the night. If parents are not staying with them they should contact them daily or occasionally in person or on phone, internet and pray for their good health and happy days. If they are staying in remote places, letter should be written and for financing help money order should be done periodically. If you do so I am sure that you will have a nice sleep and your health of mind and body will be improved day by day. You will have greater visualization for your trade and business, tasks, problems and study, as you get support and ashirvad i.e. blessings from your parents.
Moral duty cannot be enforced but it should come from your heart. Any misunderstanding created by somebody or from your own actions should be removed by contacting the parents personally and removing the misunderstanding. Minds should be clear and you should note that they are your parents who gave birth to you. Balance should be done between you and your parents by giving due respect to them as well as your spouse or other concerned relatives should be taken into confidence for removing misunderstanding. Ego, anger, hate these words should be removed from your dictionary of Life to do moral duty towards your parents for success in your life.
Today on the occasion of International women day I appeal all sons and daughters and spouse also to see that all are happy by your actions and proper communication with each other.
I also appeal to those who are taking are about to take decision of divorce should stop doing so and take the spouse in confidence and carry their married life successfully. Do not do friendship with those who advise you to take divorce and ensure smooth married life. Those who have applied for divorce should withdraw the applications if case is false according to their inner mind, or reasons are not such to take divorce. Those who took divorce may also rejoin if that is acceptable to both after proper discussions and understanding. You should well understand that wife is not only wife but she acts as your mother also to take care of you in old age along with your children and she is faithful to you throughout life.
I will be happy if due to my lecture married life of any couple is on right track and children start or improve their moral duty towards parent.

You love you

Now a days every person is busy with shedule for job,study,seeing movies, t.v, computer,internet/games and so on. No one cares for himself/herself. It is time to care for you in time. It means you should love you, your good habits, thoughts and your body. In other words it is so simple to say that keep good health, study something without any break to gain knowledge of every field, visit places to see beauty of nature and inculcate good habits,keep away from bad attractions. Before you love any person, try to love you always by keeping yourself neat,calm,attractive and energetic. All rest things will follow for happy life.
Author Shrinivas Gosavi.

Love.

I thought it proper just now to become,for this moment,a philosopher to explain what is love.
The love is very wide term. It it created between the friends, relatives and stranger also sometimes. It is purely with the association of person and time factor is very important. Due to communication facilities it is very easy to capture the event,place and person for making love. Love is a very critical factor of human nature.It is not depended on beauty,sex or age. It has no standard and no fix way to do.It is widely observed that love is ultimately for sex if it is between opposite sex for the same intention from either side. Age of love has no bounds. However it is the fate or judgement of a person to value the trueness of the same. It should be tested and ensured that it is not for bad intention, otherwise life of a person can be painful and miserable state of mind may chase the life of the person. There is every chance for improvement but it should be in the best way and affirmative to enjoy the future fruits of life with cautious mind. Love can be an adjustment if failed. But pure love may include sacrifice of certain things like money, friendship and partnership of life with the beloved person.
Everybody is in the situation that who is mine?
Marriage out of love is a gamble in most cases if it is not based on ethical footing and decision is taken without ensuring the caliber of the persons,status of the person and customs and habits of the society and the particular person.
Every person who falls in love with somebody is a winner if other person accepts it with good intention and respect each other for life with mutual understanding.
Love is not a permanent factor in the life if both are not mutually respecting each other by helping physically, mentally and financially.Author:Shrinivas Gosavi
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Active lady of the days

I never saw such beautiful and active actress in bolywood.She is not only professioal but also sensible to do any acting suitable to her. She is perfect in her acting always. I admire her every action in the life. Your life style as a present era lady should be active as her actions in her profession.

Shrinivas Gosavi, shrinivasg@gmail.com

You should not love shares when best for sale.

It is mostly observed that we do not sale share which are fetching good amount because we love to keep the shares with us. This is not the correct decision.We should sale the shares when the price is best during that week or fortnight or even on the day and keep order to buy at lower fixed rate we decide best to buy. In this way we get the profit which will recover at leat interest amount for some months or years so that we can hold the shares for some time.
Never sale the shares which you are not in possession of,otherwise, if the price increases,you have to book loss or go for auction of shares incurring huge loss. If at all you have to do so, keep stop loss.
If you want to purchase shares ensure that the price is best for buy and if purchased keep for sale with at least 4% more of purchased price judging the price trend of that industry.

Shrinivas Gosavi , shrinivasg@youtele.com

who is mine

I saw you for the first time
and began to love you as a.........
I think you will accept it sometime
but I cannot wait till you respond
as I do not know who is mine.

Poem Created by Shrinivas Gosavi. shrinivasg@youtele.com